What to Expect During the Collaborative Divorce Process

If you’re considering collaborative divorce, you may be wondering what the process actually looks like. At Simple Divorce, we believe that clarity brings comfort—so here’s a step-by-step look at what you can expect.

The process begins with a mutual commitment: both spouses agree not to go to court and instead work together to reach a resolution. Each person retains their own collaboratively trained attorney, and a team of neutral professionals—such as financial specialists or child therapists—may be brought in to support specific needs. From there, a series of structured meetings are held where everyone works together to identify goals, exchange information, and negotiate terms.

Throughout the process, the focus remains on respectful communication, creative problem-solving, and shared decision-making. Unlike traditional litigation, there are no surprise tactics or courtroom battles—just a calm, private space to work through important issues like parenting plans, asset division, and support arrangements. The result? A personalized agreement that reflects your values and sets the stage for a healthier future.